I give up. I don’t get it. Men today seriously confuse me so much. From
trying to date my BFF to just generally trying to date and get to know guys… I
don’t get it!!!
The last few weeks I have been putting myself out there to meet
guys and “date” and whatnot… I want to move on in this area of my life… and all
I have ended up is frustrated.
Guys today don’t seem to pursue a woman.
In the last 3 weeks… I have “met” about 7 men. Some of them was just “meeting” online some of
them were mutual friends of friends… some were guys I have known for years but
nothing ever came of it… And all but 2
have pursued me. All but 2 have asked me out on a date.
I have come to the conclusion.. If I don’t text, email, invite
them first… nothing ever comes of it… and I am done with it. If I am not
important enough to get a text first or an invite first.. then they are not
worth it.
I do understand that I have kids… so it does make things a little
bit more difficult… BUT… that shouldn’t never
be a reason not to ask me to dinner… movies… coffee.. something. I can try and get a sitter for when you ask..
If I can’t…then we can try and reschedule for a time when I can. But I shouldn’t have to always be the one
saying “hey you wanna come and hang out and watch a movie” or whatever… Its not always only up to me…
Oh and also guys… a girl likes it when you make the plans- esp. for
a first date… We want to see that you
can be a man and make good decisions and actually just make a decision period..
cuz the last thing I am looking for is a man that I have to tell what to do all
the time!! If you don’t want to make all
the decisions.. give a choice.. “would you rather this or that”… not just an I don’t
care – its up to you… That just frustrates us!!
But anyway.. Im done.
Whatever it be it be.
Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama
Oh and I also aint setteling.. sorry if it sounds harsh.. but I
will be “dating” a few different men.. I am not going to go on a couple dates
with one man.. and boom we are serious and 2 months later I am sitting there
stuck on stupid wondering why the hell am I with this guy?? It can’t work long
term. J
You go girl!! Ha, ha... :) I will say that some guys are just shy. But as an old-fashioned girl myself, I have always waited on the guy to ask me out first. That may be why I didn't go on a lot of dates growing up though! ;)
ReplyDeleteI found out that when I was just happy doing what was best for me and my children Love came to find me. I had 2 girls and I had been through the mill let's just say and I met someone. We instantly had a connection and then we developed our friendship and we are now married. I'm old fashion as April is but I guess we as women give out certain vibes. I know that men like confident, secure women. I have done quite a bit of research on men and I know they love women to be feminine, comfortable, and they prefer a woman who isn't needy, I hope this helps, God has someone out there just for you and you deserve to find the Love of Your Life.
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