I give up. I don’t get it. Men today seriously confuse me so much. From trying to date my BFF to just generally trying to date and get to know guys… I don’t get it!!!
The last few weeks I have been putting myself out there to meet guys and “date” and whatnot… I want to move on in this area of my life… and all I have ended up is frustrated.
Guys today don’t seem to pursue a woman.
In the last 3 weeks… I have “met” about 7 men. Some of them was just “meeting” online some of them were mutual friends of friends… some were guys I have known for years but nothing ever came of it… And all but 2 have pursued me. All but 2 have asked me out on a date.
I have come to the conclusion.. If I don’t text, email, invite them first… nothing ever comes of it… and I am done with it. If I am not important enough to get a text first or an invite first.. then they are not worth it.
I do understand that I have kids… so it does make things a little bit more difficult… BUT… that shouldn’t never be a reason not to ask me to dinner… movies… coffee.. something. I can try and get a sitter for when you ask.. If I can’t…then we can try and reschedule for a time when I can. But I shouldn’t have to always be the one saying “hey you wanna come and hang out and watch a movie” or whatever… Its not always only up to me…
Oh and also guys… a girl likes it when you make the plans- esp. for a first date… We want to see that you can be a man and make good decisions and actually just make a decision period.. cuz the last thing I am looking for is a man that I have to tell what to do all the time!! If you don’t want to make all the decisions.. give a choice.. “would you rather this or that”… not just an I don’t care – its up to you… That just frustrates us!!
But anyway.. Im done. Whatever it be it be.
Blessings N Love
Oh and I also aint setteling.. sorry if it sounds harsh.. but I will be “dating” a few different men.. I am not going to go on a couple dates with one man.. and boom we are serious and 2 months later I am sitting there stuck on stupid wondering why the hell am I with this guy?? It can’t work long term. J