Friday, September 30, 2011

Realization Friday

This week I have come to realize that:

~ my favorite cookies are peanut butter

~ I don’t want a guy that is super clingy, but one that makes me feel special but still gives me my space.

~ there is a wall around my heart

~ the next guy is gonna have to be great in order to get that wall down.

~  I am slowly getting some motivation back

~ people are crazy

~ I have certain friends for certain things… im learning which is for what.

~ I have the best kids ever

~ I hate when someone calls from a blocked or unlisted number. I will no answer.

~ I also hate when people call from a number I don’t know- and I wont answer- and they don’t leave a message.

~ People seriously frustrate me!!!!!!!

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

wonderful son

Hello all my wonderful readers!!! J

All I have been able to think about today is my wonderful son.  How even in all my frustration.. he amazes me. 

Last night we were talking and he told me how he was invited to a friends house in a couple weekends… and I told him it was fine if he wants to go. He said no. Him and the boy aint friends. He doesn’t like him anymore. This was a kid that he was friends with and has known since kindergarten. I asked him why?? He said because the kid swears too much!  I couldn’t believe that was a reason. But then I think back and when we watch movies that have adult language in them.. he is always saying “man I wish they would quit swearing” or would apologize if it was a movie he picked out saying that he didn’t know that there were going to swear!  

My Lil Man is growing up!! And even tho we bump heads from time to time. And I wonder sometimes how I am doing as a mother because more often than not I feel like I am a failure…. I am so proud of him… I am proud of the maturity he shows in situations…  he is still a kid and still makes kid choices and mistakes… but when it comes down to him… I am so proud of him!!!

He is my heart. 

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama

Friday, September 23, 2011

Realization Friday

Its Friday!!! Thank goodness… and after the day I have had today… OMG!! I am glad its Friday!!!

Just gonna cut right to it..

This week I have come to realize:

~  that I am getting dorkier in my old age.

~ that I am afraid of love

~ that people sucks

~ that companies hire the stupidest people for their customer service… at least its seems I always get the people that have no clue how to help me with my problem

~ that people don’t think I work and can drop whatever I am doing to help them.. at any given time.

~  that I need a break.

Hope ya’ll have a great weekend!!!!

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama

Thursday, September 22, 2011

idea of love

I seriously don’t know why I am in as good of a mood as I am in!!!  But I love it!!

This has def. been a crazy week for me.. good but crazy.

I think I am giving up tho… giving up on the whole idea of love… of happily ever after with price charming. I am tired of trying. I am tired of getting my emotions mixed in to something and just it all come crashing down. I am really starting to think that I am just supposed to be single.  

I feel like the couple months… I haven’t been where I want to be in my relationship with Christ. I feel not really so much distant.. but not really close.  I dunno how exactly to explain it.  I just don’t have that desire in my heart.. I still pray all the time.. I still go to church (tho I did miss last weekend)..  I dunno. Its like somethings changed.   
My mindset just aint where it used to be.

I will keep praying… J I have faith that things will get right and maybe one day I will find my prince.

Blessings N  Love
Overthinking Mama

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

A-Z of Me

Yea… Im jumping on that bandwagon.. mainly just cuz I don’t really have any motivation to do anything else today… ugh.

A. Age: 29
B. Bed size: Queen… but I really do need a king- esp since I have 2 kids who end up in there with me… ugh.
C. Chore that you hate: Dishes. I hate hate hate hate doing the dishes.
D. Dogs: A Chihuahua and a Mutt (pitt, boxer, who knows whatelse…)
E. Essential start to your day: Waking up.  Followed by time with God.
F. Favorite color: Pink, Purple, Black
G. Gold or Silver: Def. silver or white gold..
H. Height: 5'6"
I. Instruments you play: nada
J. Job title: Mama, Sales Gal, blogger, crazy chic.
K. Kids: Lil Man and Baby Girl 
L. Live: 
Close to Insane, Ohio
M. Mother’s name: Mom
N. Nicknames: Sissy, Sarah Bear
O. Overnight hospital stays: Just when I have had my babies
P. Pet peeves: 
People who say they will do something with no intentions of doing it at all.
Q. Quote: Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you too, can become great. ~ Mark Twain
R. Right or left handed: Right handed.
S. Siblings: One older brother… 2 older step bros and 2 older step sis. .
U. Underwear: What you eating under there??  You are eating Underware?!  Eeww.
V. Vegetable you hate: Mushrooms
W. What makes you run late: My self and my total lack of wanting to get out of bed. .
X. X-Rays you’ve had: A lot.
Y. Yummy food that you make: IDK.. pretty decent at baking I guess.. lol. idk.
Z. Zoo animal: none. I love the Meerkats.. J

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama 

Monday, September 19, 2011

Lil man and his dinner time project

He built this at dinner the other night!! He was so proud!!
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Friday, September 16, 2011

realization friday

Its that wonderful day of the week… that we all look forward to starting Monday morning… Its Friday!!!!

And that means… its time for….

The realizations for the week!!!

This week I’ve come to realize:

~ people are idiots

~ that some people are just full of double standards.

~  that I am not all for a relationship right now.. I just wanna meet people and see what happens and where it goes.

~ that my friends hold grudges about people that have wronged me.. more than I do.. to me.. it aint worth that energy.

~ that I am a total dork.  I went to the library and got 4 books to go with the one I am reading… and like 9 movies… this is my life anymore.. and I love it.

~ some people just draw out drama.

~ that God is good… even when I am not… HE still is.

Make sure to send me your realizations for the week so I can post them up!! Everything is annonomys.

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama 

Thursday, September 15, 2011

My-Mama Style

Well Its been a bit since i have dont a My-Mama Style post. :-)  These are older pics as you can tell by the hair. I just kept forgetting to post. :-) Sorry bout that. 

My- MAMA Style

Shirt- From my BFF- from Dillards $??? 
Tank: From Wet Seal $7.99 
Jeans: Arizona $15.00
Shoes: From Kohls: Candies $29.99

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

dating and being frustrated

I give up. I don’t get it.  Men today seriously confuse me so much. From trying to date my BFF to just generally trying to date and get to know guys… I don’t get it!!!

The last few weeks I have been putting myself out there to meet guys and “date” and whatnot… I want to move on in this area of my life… and all I have ended up is frustrated.   

Guys today don’t seem to pursue a woman.  

In the last 3 weeks… I have “met” about 7 men.  Some of them was just “meeting” online some of them were mutual friends of friends… some were guys I have known for years but nothing ever came of it…  And all but 2 have pursued me. All but 2 have asked me out on a date.   

I have come to the conclusion.. If I don’t text, email, invite them first… nothing ever comes of it… and I am done with it. If I am not important enough to get a text first or an invite first.. then they are not worth it. 

I do understand that I have kids… so it does make things a little bit more difficult… BUT…  that shouldn’t never be a reason not to ask me to dinner… movies… coffee.. something.  I can try and get a sitter for when you ask.. If I can’t…then we can try and reschedule for a time when I can.  But I shouldn’t have to always be the one saying “hey you wanna come and hang out and watch a movie” or whatever…  Its not always only up to me…

Oh and also guys… a girl likes it when you make the plans- esp. for a first date…  We want to see that you can be a man and make good decisions and actually just make a decision period.. cuz the last thing I am looking for is a man that I have to tell what to do all the time!!  If you don’t want to make all the decisions.. give a choice.. “would you rather this or that”… not just an I don’t care – its up to you… That just frustrates us!!

But anyway.. Im done.  Whatever it be it be. 

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama

Oh and I also aint setteling.. sorry if it sounds harsh.. but I will be “dating” a few different men.. I am not going to go on a couple dates with one man.. and boom we are serious and 2 months later I am sitting there stuck on stupid wondering why the hell am I with this guy?? It can’t work long term. J

Friday, September 9, 2011

Venting and Top Blog List

I need to vent…ugh. He irriates me so much!!!!

Once again I text my daughters father and asked if maybe he wanted her this weekend… and can you imagine.. He’s going out of town.. to another friggin state!!! 

He came over last week to see her… stayed for about an hour or so. And of course said he wanted me back… ugh. I told him no.. and I didn’t hear from him again. 

I just wish he’s man up once in awhile an be a friggin man and father!!! 

I wasn’t the only one there that night making the baby…

Oh well.. I know that I am the better parent. And she will be a better person because I was in her life and not him. 

Any way….

On the bright side… I got put on a Top Single Parent Blog List!!!

I got the email yesterday and that made my whole day!!!

Make sure you check it out!!

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama 

Realization Friday

TGIF!!! Thank goodness.. Even tho it was only a 4 day week… I am so happy that its done.. and it seemed to take forever… yet went quick. I wish every week was only 4 days!!  That would be perfect!!

Any great plans for the weekend??

Me?! NOPE!!! Rest Relax and Rejuvinate.

And guess what… its my favorite post of the week!!!

Realizaton Friday!!

And don’t forget if you have any realizations.. you can always send them into me…

This week I have come to realize:

~ That ex’s can be friends again.. you just need to give them time.

~ That sometimes the expected never happens and the unexpected does.

~ That people are crazy!!

~ That I forgive and forget too easily.

~ That I have a lot stronger will power than I ever thought possible.

~ that my phone is seriously annoying me!!!

~ That summer is over and now its back to being my normal self.

~ That I couldn’t live with out a few of my friends!!

~ That God is so good to me!!

~ That I won’t settle for less than what I deserve…  a good family Christian man.  I have yet to really have that… and maybe that’s why nothing has worked out.

~ That I hate thinking bad about someone when I have no proof. L

~ That I love being who I am… dork and all.

Enjoy the weekend ya’ll!!!

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama 

Thursday, September 8, 2011

wrong side of the bed

Well I woke up in a crabby, depressed state of mind today.  Ugh. I hate it. I really have no motivation for anything at all what so ever.

I just want to go back to bed… get lost in a book and pretend there is no such thing as reality.  Too bad that can’t happen.  I need a vacation. Lol.

I am hoping to have a very low key weekend. Planning on doing pretty much nothing… Maybe finally getting the pics together for my clothing site that I have totally been slacking on… Getting some books together to trade in on  Read. Read and Read some more. Maybe take the dogs for a walk.  

I need to go to Walmart on lunch… and I am really dreading that. I hate shopping there. Lol.  But we need milk and stuffs… so Ill be heading there.. then hopefully home for a bit to read and relax.  Hopefully.

Hope ya’ll are having a great week so far.

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama 

Friday, September 2, 2011

Realization Friday!

Ooh eemmm geee!!! Its Friday!!! And it’s a 3 day weekend!!! Anything great planned??  Tonight I am doing  a Scentsy party!!!  Tomorrow a cook out with some friends… Sunday a cook out at my house with some friends.. Monday.. I have no clue. J  I am looking forward to sleeping in.. some grilled burgers… and fun times!! J

This week I have come to realize:

~ People suck.

~ oh and people suck.

~ I have no patience this week for people.. see above.

~ God is so wonderful!!!

~ gggrrr.. can I say people suck??

~ I have been exhausted all this week. L

~ I jogged 1.5 miles hoping it would give me energy… nope. Just wanted to sleep more.

~ that I really need to get on a morning schedule cuz hitting the snooze button 25x aint working out so well.

~ I have some of the greatest friends ever.

~ that I have seriously wanted to smack someone… yea, just about everyday.

~ that my bff’s bday was Wednesday… and I love her. Happy Birthday Leisa!!!

Hope ya’ll have a wonderful weekend!!

Blessings N Love
Overthinking Mama