My friend of mine... has been talking to this guy for a few weeks now... He's a great guy for her... They have a lot in common... but she's not all about him. She says she likes him... but theres something not there... She doesn't have that "butterfly feeling" about him. He's just a friend.
I wonder if she trys to find things wrong with guys or wont let herself be open enough to a new person to love them and let them love her?
If fear of being hurt and fear of failure hold her back from happiness.
or maybe just over the years of jerks, being hurt and betrayed has just opened up her instincts that much more so she knows when its right and when its not.