Why is it... that why we get into a relationship we try to get the other person to change their physical appearance? You need to lose weight, gain weight, cut your hair, let it grow, color it this, color it that, get a tan, quit tanning etc...
If I wasnt the way that you wanted me to be when you first met me... then why did you get with me in the first place?
Why as humans do we need to change the one that we are with? Are you less attractive to that person if they dont have the features that you find attractive? Are you reminded of an ex or of someone that you want to be with now but cant?
why does there have to be change?