cAN YOU BE FRIENDS WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX?

When you are in a relationship... Can you still be friends and hang out with the opposite sex?

Do you have to give up your best friends just because they are a boy or a girl? Do you have to stop hanging out with them on a one and one basis just because you got a new "love" ? Is it disrespectful to your new "love" to hang out with your friend? What if you have been intimate with this friend? Does that change things?

I want to get opinions on this...

I think as long as there is trust there... It should be ok for you to still hang out with your friends... male or female... as long as trust hasnt been broken and as long as the friend comes around the love interst and is at least considerate and respectful to your love interest...

Does your love interest have the right to ask you not to hang out with someone that you have been friends with before them? To tell you who you should and should not hang out with?

waited

I’ve waited my whole life
Just for that one night
From the first time that we met
Every moment just felt so right

I fell in love with you
The right and wrong
Just the thought of you
Makes my heart thump a love song

I want to spend my life with you
I want to be by your side
Thru thick and thin
You are who I want to confide

My heart is yours
To you give you my soul
And to prove my love
Is my new goal

To be in your arms forever
To feel you kisses on my cheek
To hear you say I love you
All makes my knees weak

With all this said
I hope you believe it’s true
I would not lie
I love you.

2005

WITH JUST THE THOUGHT OF YOU
MY HEART SKIPS A BEAT
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
YOU HAVE LIFTED ME OFF OF MY FEET
I HOPE ONE DAY VERY SOON
THAT I WILL GET TO SAY
TWO PRECIOUS WORDS- I DO
YOU HAVE MY LOVE
YOU HAVE MY HEART
FORBIDDEN IT MAY BE
BUT UNDENYABLEY TRUE
FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE
I WANT TO BE WITH ONLY YOU

1998

SADNESS AND DESPAIR
CRYING ALL NIGHT
HUSH MY CHILD
EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT
HEARTBROKE AND HEARTACHE
LOSING THE ONE YOU LOVE
MEND YOUR WINGS AND FLY FREE
BE A LONESOME DOVE

confused

CONFUSED ABOUT LIFE
CONFUSED ABOUT LOVE
TORN APART INSIDE
WONDERING IF I WILL RISE ABOVE
SCARED TO LOVE ANYONE
SCARED I WILL MESS I UP
WONDERING IF I CAN LOVE AGAIN
WITHOUT SCREWING IT UP
DEPRESSION AND SADNESS
DEPRESSION AND DESPAIR
MAKING A MESS OF LIFE
THAT I WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO REPAIR
GOD HELP ME THRU IT ALL
GOD HELP ME WITH MY SIN
SHELP THRU MY SORROW WITH GRACE
THRU ALL MY OUTS AND INS

May 2008

I believed you
I gave you my heart
You said you loved me
And I believed you

I gave you my trust
You said you would never leave
And I believed you

I gave you my love
You said you would never hurt me
And I believed you

But you didnt love me
But you did leave me
But you did hurt me

And now you want me to believe that you have changed
That you are a better person
That you will treat me good... like a princess
That you will always love me
That you will never hurt me
That you will never leave

But why?
Why should I believe you now?
What is different now than then?

I believed you. Not anymore.

We are sheep...

A funny thing happened today....
My son was late for school today...
So I had to take him into the office and sign him in that he is late..
So I was like the 5th person on the sign in sheet... and I looked and everyone had signed the date today as 10/06/05. HHHmmm made me stop and think a second... this isnt 2005....
The first person on the sheet musta put 05 (i am thinking that they just didnt finish their 8) and everyone else... instead of using common sense... just put down the same thing.

It is amazing how much like sheep we are... how we will just follow along with what one person does... even if we know it is obviously wrong.
Why don't people think before they act... why do we just go along with what the person before us has done? Why is it so hard to think for ourselfs?